The Selfish Snob | Stepping Into Your Power
This podcast is for high-achieving Latinas who have achieved success, but lack fulfillment and purpose in their lives. You’ve already got the degree, you’ve wow’ed your family, you’ve landed the ”big girl” job, but you still feel like something is missing. You did everything your immigrant parents told you would make you happy in life. You thought everything you worked so hard for was going to be ”it”, but then quickly realized that you’re in need of something more. More impact. More purpose. More fulfillment... If you’re an ambitious Latina who’s living a life that just doesn’t quite fit right anymore and you’re ready to start going outside of the box society, family, and la cultura has placed on you, then you’re in the right place! Welcome to The Selfish Snob Podcast, where I teach women just like you how to find their purpose, ditch self-doubt, and create success on their own terms. Week by week, I teach you how to reconnect with who you are beyond the expectations of others so that you can start living a more purpose-driven, fulfilling life. This podcast is for you if you’ve ever asked yourself: ”Is this all life has to offer?” ”What do you do when your job doesn’t fulfill you?” ”Am I going through an early life crisis?” ”How do I set boundaries with my family?” ”How do I find a job that makes me happy?” ”Why do I feel like I’m just going through the motions in life?” ”How do I find my true calling?” ”How do I pursue my passion with confidence?” ”How do I find happiness outside of a corporate job?” ”How do I take bold steps towards my dreams?” It’s time to stop wondering ”what if” and start planning what’s next! Ready to take the first step toward a life that truly feels like it was made FOR you? Be sure to hit that follow button and tune in every Monday so we can get to work on building out your dream life, together! Let’s Connect: Website: www.luvugurl.com TikTok: @dronaysiamartinez Instagram: @dronaysiamartinez
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Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Why am I still unfulfilled, even though I’ve “made it”?If you’ve ever laid awake wondering why your dream career feels more like a cage than a calling… this episode is for you. In this powerful episode, Dr. Onaysia Martinez — a first-generation Latina, physical therapist turned identity liberation coach — reveals the truth about high-achieving burnout and what no one tells you about “success.”
She breaks down how cultural expectations, generational pressure, and corporate lies keep first-gen women stuck in lives that look perfect on paper, but feel hollow in their hearts.
✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why so many successful first-gen women still feel lost and disconnected
How to stop tying your worth to achievements and external validation
What to do when you’re burnt out, unmotivated, and questioning everything
Steps to start living with more clarity, purpose, and joy — right now
Whether you’re considering leaving your career, craving something deeper, or just sick of faking fulfillment — this is your sign to start living life on your own terms.
P.S. - Don’t miss the details on Dr. Onaysia’s free webinar “How to Further Your Success as a Latina” — in order to ditch the pressure, rediscover your purpose, and step into a legacy that’s actually yours. Sign up here.
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Subscribe for more real-talk on first-generation identity, Latina empowerment, and building your own legacy.
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Let's Connect!
🌐 Website: www.LuvUGurl.com📱 TikTok: @DrOnaysiaMartinez📸 Instagram: @DrOnaysiaMartinez💼 LinkedIn: Dr. Onaysia Martinez
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction: Feeling Unfulfilled Despite Success
01:03 Personal Story: Realizing the Missing Piece
01:44 Redefining Success: Internal vs. External
02:46 Steps to Find Fulfillment
05:09 Discovering Your True Passions
06:42 Invitation to Webinar: How to Further Your Success
07:28 Taking Action: Build Your Dream Life
08:05 Conclusion: Live Selfishly and Purposefully
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Welcome to The Selfish Snob Podcast – this isn't just a podcast, it's a movement, a rebellion, a revolution for the high-achieving Latina, the product of immigrants, the eldest daughter, and the overachiever who is tired of playing by everyone else’s rules and is ready to create her own legacy.
If you’ve ever looked around your “successful” life and thought “Is this really it?”—this podcast is your permission slip to want more. Every Monday, we get real about how the "American Dream" sold to us by our families, schools, and society was a lie—and how to finally walk away from the life you were supposed to live to build the life you actually want.
We’re breaking down:
The myths of stability meant to keep you living small
The pressure to make everyone proud—at the cost of your own joy
How to rediscover your voice, purpose, and power without guilt
This isn’t just a podcast. It’s a rebellion against living small. We’re talking fulfillment, purpose, bold decisions, and how to become the most selfishly aligned version of yourself. We aren't here to get approval from others, we're here to lead our own legacies--selfishly, and unapologetically!
Tune in every Monday and be sure to follow the show so you never miss an update!
Let's Connect:
🌐 Website: www.LuvUGurl.com📲 TikTok: @DrOnaysiaMartinez📸 Instagram: @DrOnaysiaMartinez💼 LinkedIn: Dr. Onaysia Martinez