The Selfish Snob | Stepping Into Your Purpose
This podcast is for high-achieving Latinas who have achieved success, but lack fulfillment and purpose in their lives. You’ve already got the degree, you’ve wow’ed your family, you’ve landed the ”big girl” job, but you still feel like something is missing. You did everything your immigrant parents told you would make you happy in life. You thought everything you worked so hard for was going to be ”it”, but then quickly realized that you’re in need of something more. More impact. More purpose. More fulfillment... If you’re an ambitious Latina who’s living a life that just doesn’t quite fit right anymore and you’re ready to start going outside of the box society, family, and la cultura has placed on you, then you’re in the right place! Welcome to The Selfish Snob Podcast, where I teach women just like you how to find their purpose, ditch self-doubt, and create success on their own terms. Week by week, I teach you how to reconnect with who you are beyond the expectations of others so that you can start living a more purpose-driven, fulfilling life. This podcast is for you if you’ve ever asked yourself: ”Is this all life has to offer?” ”What do you do when your job doesn’t fulfill you?” ”Am I going through an early life crisis?” ”How do I set boundaries with my family?” ”How do I find a job that makes me happy?” ”Why do I feel like I’m just going through the motions in life?” ”How do I find my true calling?” ”How do I pursue my passion with confidence?” ”How do I find happiness outside of a corporate job?” ”How do I take bold steps towards my dreams?” It’s time to stop wondering ”what if” and start planning what’s next! Ready to take the first step toward a life that truly feels like it was made FOR you? Be sure to hit that follow button and tune in every Monday so we can get to work on building out your dream life, together! Let’s Connect: Website: www.luvugurl.com TikTok: @dronaysiamartinez Instagram: @dronaysiamartinez
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Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
If you’ve been thinking: “Maybe if I just get one more certification, I’ll finally feel confident…” — this episode is your wake-up call.
In this bold, truth-packed episode, Dr. Onaysia Martinez — physical therapist turned identity liberation coach — exposes the hidden pressure high-achieving, first-gen Latinas face to constantly prove themselves through degrees, certifications, and titles… even when they’ve already done the most.
She unpacks why we chase the next training instead of addressing the deeper misalignment beneath it — and what it really takes to feel successful, fulfilled, and proud of who you are without another piece of paper.
✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why constantly chasing “the next level” is a trauma response, not ambition
How we tie our self-worth to achievements — and how to untangle it
What to do when your resume is stacked, but your soul still feels off
Why true freedom starts when you stop trying to prove and start choosing purpose
If you’ve ever asked yourself:🔎 “Should I get another certification?”
🔎 "How can I level up in my career?"🔎 “How do I stop feeling like I’m not enough in my career?”🔎 “Why am I still unhappy even though I’m successful?” —Then this episode was made for you.
P.S. Don’t miss Dr. Onaysia’s free live webinar: “How to Further Your Success as a Latina” — where you’ll learn how to stop chasing validation and start living a life that’s aligned with who you really are. Sign up here.
Your Next Steps:
Subscribe for more truth-filled episodes on Latina empowerment, legacy-breaking, and purpose.
Share this with a friend who’s been drowning in perfectionism and people-pleasing.
Leave a review so this podcast can reach more mujeres looking to live out their purpose and create their own legacies.
Join the waitlist for The Path to Purpose Coaching Program — because your next chapter isn’t in a course, it’s in your clarity.
Let’s Connect!
🌐 Website: www.LuvUGurl.com📲 TikTok: @DrOnaysiaMartinez📸 Instagram: @DrOnaysiaMartinez💼 LinkedIn: Dr. Onaysia Martinez
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction: The Certification Trap
03:15 Do You Really Need Another Certification, Sis?
03:38 Understanding Your True Worth
05:54 Aligning Career with Personal Fulfillment
07:10 The Importance of Self-Validation
08:22 Steps to True Freedom and Purpose
11:19 Taking Action Towards Your Dream Life
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Why are you still exhausted, even after taking time off?
If you're constantly counting down to your next PTO day and banking on that vacation to make you feel whole again… this episode is for you.
In this episode, Dr. Onaysia Martinez — first-generation Latina, physical therapist turned identity liberation coach — uncovers the real reason why you’re still burnt out, unfulfilled, and disconnected, even when you’re doing all the “right” things.
She breaks down how spiritual and emotional burnout disguises itself as physical exhaustion — and why no amount of rest, self-care, or red light therapy will fix a job that’s misaligned with your soul.
✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why your PTO isn’t healing the burnout you’re actually feeling
The 4 types of exhaustion—and how to tell which one you’re really battling
Why feeling off is actually a red flag, not something to ignore
How to reconnect with what lights you up and stop living for the weekend
Whether you’re thriving on paper, but drowning in silence… or stuck in a job you once prayed for but now lowkey hate — this is your moment to start getting honest with yourself.
P.S. Don’t miss the invitation to Dr. Onaysia’s free webinar “How to Further Your Success as a Latina” — your next step towards building a life that doesn’t require recovery. Sign up here.
Your Next Steps:
Subscribe for more real-talk on first-gen identity, Latina empowerment, and breaking free from legacy pressure
Share this episode with your high-achieving amiga who’s running on empty
Leave a review so this podcast gets out to more high-achievers looking to find their purpose in life.
Join the waitlist for The Path to Purpose Coaching Program — because it’s time you stop surviving and start thriving
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction: The PTO Dilemma
01:03 A Personal Story: The Wellness Resort Experience
03:13 The Realization: Vacation Isn't the Solution
04:16 Three Key Takeaways for True Fulfillment
04:37 Lesson One: Aligning with Your Work
05:39 The Importance of Spiritual and Emotional Health
08:09 Webinar Invitation: Dive Deeper into Fulfillment
08:59 Finding Joy and Purpose in Your Daily Life
11:14 Conclusion: Take Action Towards Your Dream Life
Let’s Connect!
🌐 Website: www.LuvUGurl.com📱 TikTok: @DrOnaysiaMartinez📸 Instagram: @DrOnaysiaMartinez💼 LinkedIn: Dr. Onaysia Martinez
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Why am I still unfulfilled, even though I’ve “made it”?If you’ve ever laid awake wondering why your dream career feels more like a cage than a calling… this episode is for you. In this powerful episode, Dr. Onaysia Martinez — a first-generation Latina, physical therapist turned identity liberation coach — reveals the truth about high-achieving burnout and what no one tells you about “success.”
She breaks down how cultural expectations, generational pressure, and corporate lies keep first-gen women stuck in lives that look perfect on paper, but feel hollow in their hearts.
✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why so many successful first-gen women still feel lost and disconnected
How to stop tying your worth to achievements and external validation
What to do when you’re burnt out, unmotivated, and questioning everything
Steps to start living with more clarity, purpose, and joy — right now
Whether you’re considering leaving your career, craving something deeper, or just sick of faking fulfillment — this is your sign to start living life on your own terms.
P.S. - Don’t miss the details on Dr. Onaysia’s free webinar “How to Further Your Success as a Latina” — in order to ditch the pressure, rediscover your purpose, and step into a legacy that’s actually yours. Sign up here.
Your Next Steps:
Subscribe for more real-talk on first-generation identity, Latina empowerment, and building your own legacy.
Share this episode with the high-achieving hermana who’s been questioning her path lately.
Join the waitlist for The Path to Purpose Program — because it's time you forge your own path.
Let's Connect!
🌐 Website: www.LuvUGurl.com📱 TikTok: @DrOnaysiaMartinez📸 Instagram: @DrOnaysiaMartinez💼 LinkedIn: Dr. Onaysia Martinez
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction: Feeling Unfulfilled Despite Success
01:03 Personal Story: Realizing the Missing Piece
01:44 Redefining Success: Internal vs. External
02:46 Steps to Find Fulfillment
05:09 Discovering Your True Passions
06:42 Invitation to Webinar: How to Further Your Success
07:28 Taking Action: Build Your Dream Life
08:05 Conclusion: Live Selfishly and Purposefully
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Welcome to The Selfish Snob Podcast – this isn't just a podcast, it's a movement, a rebellion, a revolution for the high-achieving Latina, the product of immigrants, the eldest daughter, and the overachiever who is tired of playing by everyone else’s rules and is ready to create her own legacy.
If you’ve ever looked around your “successful” life and thought “Is this really it?”—this podcast is your permission slip to want more. Every Monday, we get real about how the "American Dream" sold to us by our families, schools, and society was a lie—and how to finally walk away from the life you were supposed to live to build the life you actually want.
We’re breaking down:
The myths of stability meant to keep you living small
The pressure to make everyone proud—at the cost of your own joy
How to rediscover your voice, purpose, and power without guilt
This isn’t just a podcast. It’s a rebellion against living small. We’re talking fulfillment, purpose, bold decisions, and how to become the most selfishly aligned version of yourself. We aren't here to get approval from others, we're here to lead our own legacies--selfishly, and unapologetically!
Tune in every Monday and be sure to follow the show so you never miss an update!
Let's Connect:
🌐 Website: www.LuvUGurl.com📲 TikTok: @DrOnaysiaMartinez📸 Instagram: @DrOnaysiaMartinez💼 LinkedIn: Dr. Onaysia Martinez